Dealing with unresolved, childhood grief...

I went to the bookstore this weekend, and was drawn to the book " The Mourning Handbook" by Helen Fitzgerald. I have never related to a book this much. While reading, I felt as though she was talking about my life. Here is part of that book..."Unresolved childhood grief is the state in which an adult, having suffered the death of a loved one while a child, remains trapped somehow in the mind-set of that child because of failure to resolve his or her grief." I have felt this way for over 30 years, and appreciate this book, because it validates my thoughts and feelings.